One-on-one counseling

Connect better with yourself and others through individual counseling with April Lau, LMHC

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what are your goals?

  • Feeling less upset, sad, anxious, angry frustrated, irritable, guilty, and/or ashamed

    Knowing how to prevent and overcome feeling overwhelmed

    Less second-guessing myself & replaying of my mistakes

    Reduced Panic, Worry & Fear

    Anxiety no longer getting in the way of my personal, life, and professional goals

    Increased confidence while I’m learning to be less afraid

    Learning how to calm the anxiety in my body

    Asking for help/being OK with receiving help

    Decreasing my fear of the unknown

    Decreased catastrophizing/less making a mountain out of a mole hill

    Social/Performance Goals:

    Less worry about the judgment of others

    Being OK with being awkward

    Telling someone something they might not like to hear

    Making a new friend

    Learning to be bold

    Going out even if I don’t feel my best

    Being OK with being noticed

    Applying for a job, asking for a raise

    Using the telephone

    Learning to go to new places

    Being able to do things alone

    Repetitive Thoughts and Compulsions:

    Freedom from time-consuming rituals

    Breaking free of unnecessary rules

    Eliminating repetitive thoughts

    Increasing my ability to do something once and then move on

  • Rewriting your story of who you are

    Coming to terms with the past

    Changing what you don’t like about yourself or finding a way to accept what you don’t like

    Learning to be OK with your choices, opinions, and beliefs even when people that are important to you disagree

    Learning who you are independent of the roles you play (hint! You aren’t just a student, mother, or engineer.)

    Being OK with not knowing everything about who you are or who you’ll be in the future

    Embracing what makes you unique

    Embracing what makes you average

    Finding out more about your values

    Incorporating new information about yourself into your story about who you are

    Realizing you deserve to be treated better, to ask for more, to say no to mistreatment

    Learning about your strengths

    Dealing with life changes

    Focusing less on what you look like and more on what’s important to you

  • Telling others how you really feel/Standing up for yourself when you want to

    Freeing yourself from playing the role everyone expects of you

    Shifting from a kid-parent relationship dynamic to an adult child-parent relationship

    Deepening relationships

    Meeting new people/Making room for new relationships/Becoming more social

    Navigating life transitions/Starting a new job/Getting a promotion

    Asking for help/Accepting help

    Setting firmer boundaries/Letting people in more

    Becoming more open/Becoming more cautious about sharing

    Becoming less aggressive

If you’re an overthinker, let’s make those thoughts work for you.

If your feelings mess with you, let’s make them work for you instead. Or if your actions lead you astray, let’s change it up.

Wouldn’t it be worth spending a few hours helping yourself?

Contact us @ 401-722-5026 or start@qualitycounselingne.com

Why April?

Sometimes it feels good to just have someone to talk to.  But sometimes just talking to someone neutral isn’t enough.  April will help you assess your needs and make a plan for addressing them.  Instead of feeling like you are aimlessly wandering through therapy, hoping someday all this talking will pay off, you’ll learn how therapy works for your type of issue and develop a customized plan for tackling whatever challenges you are facing. With focused therapy, you may start noticing changes in as little as one session.


Why Cognitive Behavioral Therapy with April?

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is designed to help you use the problems you have today to learn how to solve your future problems.  April will help you learn how to solve the issues that bother you now and turn that new know-how into a tool to use in future situations.  Maybe today’s hurdle is a family member you can’t seem to get along with today.  Learn how to stand up for yourself without walking all over them and you’ll be better able to deal with friends and coworkers in the future.


What’s April’s experience helping people like me?

April trained in 2007-2008 & had her first job as a counselor in 2008.  Since graduating with her masters in mental health counseling she has been working with clients one-on-one, in group therapy, or in couples therapy.   She has a Certificate in Cognitive Behavioral Interventions, which means she doesn’t just think CBT is the ideal treatment; she is trained specifically in this type of therapy.

 

It is important that

…YOUR COUNSELOR HAVE A THEORETICAL ORIENTATION, A LENS THROUGH WHICH THEY FOCUS YOUR TREATMENT INSTEAD OF HOPING THE MAGIC WILL JUST HAPPEN WHEN YOU GET TOGETHER. I STUDIED COGNITIVE BEHAVIORAL THERAPY WITH DANIEL BECK, LICSW, AN EXPERT IN CBT AND THE SON OF THE FOUNDER OF CBT, THROUGH BOSTON UNIVERSITY’S SCHOOL OF SOCIAL WORK AND AM DEDICATED TO HELPING PEOPLE DEVELOP HAPPIER CONNECTIONS WITH OTHERS AND THEMSELVES.

/  APRIL LAU, LMHC  /